“Living with constantly being upset about what you lost is to waste what you have.”- uncredited quote.
But then again it depends on how deep and wide is your loss.
You can live with the loss just like the way you live with an incurable disease. You keep it under control just with the right amount of medication. But still it reminds you of its presence, its grip tightening sometimes .
But you aren’t wasting what you have . You know that life has to go on.
You go on, with the upset feeling.
Life is still the same. You just become a different you. As you live with an ache which plays hide and seek.